When we get back with abusive men, and let me talk about trauma bonding for a moment first, trauma bonding simply means that if two people have shared a highly emotional experience together, it gives them a unique bond and perhaps even a false sense of a depth of bond and a false sense of shared history.
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Why do women, and men, go back to abusive partners again and again? Meet Trauma Bonding, aka Stockholm Syndrome
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Many people think dating sucks. Here is what to do to make dating fun…
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Dating Sucks… Now why would they feel this way? Well, because they want to create something real. Chances are if you’re reading this article, you want to create something real when it comes to dating. You want to find someone who values you. Find someone who invests in you. Who you can invest in. Someone who you can build something enduring with, but instead here’s what you get. Casual dating, meaningless hookups, and mixed, confusing-ass signals. You do not need to be a psychic to know that an enormous number of people right now feel this…
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Ways to Improve Your Chances of Successful Online Dating
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Research-based suggestions to identify the best prospects in the crowd. For those considering online dating, here are five simple tips to follow in order to maximise your chances of procuring a successful match.
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The Online Dating Scene: One Secret to Success
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How many a man has thrown up his hands at a time when a little more effort, a little more patience would have achieved success. — Elbert Hubbard
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Let’s have a look at Online dating rules: tips for success in the digital age
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The rules of dating have changed. Unlike the pre-digital age when the biggest worry was whether a date would call or not, we now have to worry about what dirty laundry our prospective partners will uncover when they inevitably do some digital sleuthing into our online lives. And even once we land the partner and are in a relationship, there are a plethora of digital do’s and don’ts that we should all be aware of.
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Here are 10 ways on how to catch out a catfish
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Catfishing is a type of deceptive activity where a person creates a sock puppet social networking presence, or fake identity on a social network account, for attention seeking, bullying or as a romance scam.
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Online Dating? What Can You Do to Achieve Success!
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If you haven’t tried online dating yourself, I’m certain you know someone who has. It has surged in popularity over the last 10–20 years, and is now one of the most likely ways to meet a mate. As a Cyberpsychologist I find it fascinating to look at how this changes the way we meet and decide on the people who will become our mates.
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Here is 10 Online Dating Tips for the Gentleman out there
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I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve seen guys make all kinds of rookie mistakes in the process of asking me out. Like the time one guy asked for my phone number after we’d been chatting, and I gave it to him thinking we could continue our conversation over text. Nope.
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So you think you are at a dead end with your online dating, well, here is tips on how to keep Online Dating interesting
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A few months back, I was starting to get bored with my online dating profile. The steady stream of nearly identical conversations was slowly but surely wearing out my desire to meet anyone new.
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Online Dating Red Flags That Everyone With A Profile Should Know
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If you use dating apps and haven’t come across a total creep, consider yourself lucky — you’re an anomaly. Because of the anonymity we’re afforded online, tons of guys (and girls!) take it upon themselves to act like total d-bags, because there aren’t any real-world consequences for, say, telling a girl on any dating site she has “nice side boob” instead of just saying “hi” like a respectful, functioning human. As such, there are many online dating red flags to watch out for.
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