So, you finally gathered up your courage, and… got rejected? Right, first thing you need to do is refocus your thinking. You want to retrain your brain.
When I used to sell real estate, I would make a hundred calls a day, most of those were no’s… it was a numbers game.
So I’d either call a hundred, or till I got to a yes. So there was a lot of rejection and I used to think, okay, every no was closer to yes. You got to really think that way too about rejection, I mean you’re not looking forward to it but if you get rejected really early on, especially early on, you want to thank that person for only wasting this little of my time so that I can move on to really finding my right partner.
The other thing too is that as you’re dating, or getting rejected, you’ll be finding out things that you like and don’t like about people, and perhaps if some of these people are honest with you about why they were not interested, if it’s
something that is changeable, you have the opportunity to better yourself so that by the time you do meet your Mr. or Mrs. Perfect for you, because no one is perfect, you’ll be better prepared for them and you’ll recognize them.
Another tip on what to do when you’ve been rejected:
Think to self that the other person… “Damn, baby, you lost out! Next!” Smile sincerely and continue on.